I’ve realised a few changes in myself.
For one, when someone starts to gossip about someone else, a lot of times, I’d turn a deaf ear. If there are others around and I really can’t wiggle my way out, I’d make myself busy with my phone or even change the subject. But since others are talking amongst each other, they’d change the topic back to its original one, anyway.
Somehow, I’d prefer to steer away and be ignorant of these “news”. It just feels like it would piss me off one way or another.
I’m not sure if anyone during the conversation would even noticed it. Most of the time, they’d continue, whether I’m mentally present or not. After all, I’m known for being the quiet one around most people. In my pov, if you’re blasting someone, then your character is no better from the ones they’re talking about.
If someone is upset about others, then I’d most probably state the truth without frills. Hoping the topic would get out of my face.
I think that it’s fine to pour out your feelings and state what you think, but, there’s no need to speculate about others or drag the topic on for too long.
We try to find a solution and/or move on.
Maybe…. as I grow older…
I get exhausted over so much bullshit. It’s not that I only want to hear fairy tales of beautiful endings and only of perfect people. Just that… if it bothers you, go ahead… but, let’s drill this down to the root of the cause and we’ll go with that plan that has been devised.
Yeah.. go ahead and scream and get pissed. Let it all out. But, after a good half hour, make sure that you’re looking forward to do what you need to.
A lot of people of this spectrum tend to avoid people because they’re tired of the bullshit. It depends, for me. I’d still be around if they’re my closer groups of friends, but, don’t get emotional if I start ignoring a lot of things that you’ve said.
Weird me. ;…;